We really enjoy meeting new couples.  Like I’ve said before, even if we don’t “play” with them, we enjoy meeting other sexually open people.  Generally, we meet find the most people to meet on three sites… Adult Friend Finder, Swing Life Style and SwapperNet.  After we’ve chatted online, we like to meet in a public place first just to see if there is attraction amongst all parties involved.  From there, we’re really open about what happens next.  If we go straight to the sex, great!  If we meet another time, that’s great too.  For us, the whole swinging thing is just about everybody being comfortable and having fun!  We’re not about gaining as many bed-post notches as possible… just getting together with like minded people for good times!

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What can I say???  Our first full swap with another couple was HOT!  There’s no other way to describe it. :)  There was some nervousness all around at the beginning, but once we got into it all the nerves disappeared.

We figured a good way to start would be for both the girls to get together and double team the guys orally.  Both of us spent quite a bit of time sucking, licking and generally pleasuring one of the guys while the other took pictures.  After a while the guys swapped on “camera duty” so the other could get his turn.  At some point or another during this, the other girl and I started to make out.  That was incredible!  I had kissed other girls before, but not while both of us were naked and fondling each other’s tits! :D  It wasn’t long before I could no longer resist the urge to go down on her and taste her sweet pussy.  That first lick is something that I’ll never forget.  It was pretty much right then I decided I was no longer bi-curious, but definitely bisexual!  I loved sucking on her clit while fingering her pussy.  Her moans just encouraged me to keep going and I finally understood why my boyfriend was so into going down on women.

A lot of the nights events from then on are a bit of a blur.  I remember the other couple both going down on me, rubbing her clit while my boyfriend fucked her, sucking her nipples while her boyfriend fucked me, and a few other random things.  It was definitely a wonderful experience and I was hooked on swinging from that night on.

After we left, my boyfriend and I just looked at each other and started laughing.  “We just had a full swap with another couple,” we both said at the same time.  It was such a high!

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This may seem strange to non-swingers, but swinging has actually helped our relationship and brought us closer together. I can’t say there was anything wrong with our relationship to begin with, but swinging has brought us closer together. It’s something we enjoy doing together. We enjoy browsing profiles together, chatting with other couples together, meeting new people together, and of course fucking other couples together! The main idea here is it’s something we do together!

When we first started, I thought I might have problems watching “R” with another woman. Well, I was wrong! At some point or another during our first swap with another couple, I looked over and just watched him fucking the other woman. It wasn’t a turn off, it was a major turn on! Funny, but true. Watching his face and body while he fucked her from behind was just incredible.

It was during that first swap that I decided I wasn’t just bi-curious, I was definitely bisexual. I loved the whole experience of being with another woman… how she felt, how she kissed, and most definitely how she tasted. Licking pussy for the first time was a wonderful experience, just thinking about it makes me hot!

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Swing Life Style
SwapperNET

Just a quick Google search finds many articles about swinging… articles about the pros and cons, tips for newbies, swinging etiquette and more. This is great for people like me who love to read everything they can about a subject. It’s nice to find so many positive articles about this ever growing lifestyle. Here are a few to get you started…

Rocky Mountain Connections Social Club - has a lot of good short articles

Adult Friend Finder - has an online magazine with some interesting articles

Couples and More - some good articles

We enjoy inviting single guys to play with us from time to time. I enjoy the MFM thing occasionally because it gives me two guys at my complete disposal. We both love the couple thing, but it can turn into such a free-for-all (not a bad thing!) and sometimes I just want all the attention on me. Yeah, I guess I’m selfish!

Surprisingly enough, we’ve actually found it more difficult to find a guy we “click” with than couples. I’m not talking about “click” as in “sparks” - I get that from R. I’m talking about “click” as in finding a guy we would also like to hang out with. We’re not the fuck and forget type. We prefer to have playmates we can also hang out with out of the bedroom - be they couples, guys or women. Our experience has been that if we can all hang out and have fun out of the bedroom… the times in the bedroom are way more fun. That’s our main goal in swinging - FUN!

We have a few criteria when looking for single guys to join us. First, R leaves the choosing completely up to me. He says the mfm thing is for me and he cannot choose a guy for me. Personally I just think there are only so many cock pictures he can look at (as I’m sure most straight guys feel). LOL! So what do I look for? A well-written profile is first. I don’t need to read a guy’s life story… a few well-written sentences without tons of spelling errors is fine. Seriously! It’s so easy to run a spell checker. If a guy isn’t smart enough to do that, then he’s probably not somebody we’d want to hang out with! Next, photos. Cock pictures are nice, face photos are better, bonus if you have both! Finally, before I send a message, I like to see if a guy has experience with couples. Usually, a guy with couple experience will know the give and take of the mfm threesome. That’s one of the best things about SLS and AFF, a person can have testimonials posted about them by other members. I will normally only contact guys who have testimonials from couples.

A side note on cock pics… Guys, trim the hedge! That is something I, and most women, look for! There’s nothing worse than going down on a guy and coming back up with hair in your teeth. Women do it for you so please return the favor!!! As R says, “there’s nothing erotic about flossing and eating at the same time.”

OK, so we send a couple of messages, we’re both interested, we chat on IM, we go over basics and have some hot talk, everything looks good and the three of us decide to meet. Cool!

Unfortunately, we have yet to find a regular fuck buddy guy. I would love to find somebody we can hang out with and play with. Somebody who, if the mood strikes me to have two cocks completely to myself, we could just call and invite over. Oh well… still searching.

So both you and your spouse/partner both want to check out swinging? Great! But… before you jump on in, there are a few things you both should consider.

1. Why do you want to swing? Are you both looking for fun, friends, sex, etc? Are you looking to replace or fix something that’s not right with your relationship? Are you just interested in screwing other people? Swinging won’t fix relationship problems. In fact, if you go into swinging with relationship problems they’ll most likely get worse. Swinging should be something you BOTH enjoy and want to do together for the pleasure of everybody involved. Good communication is so important here!
2. Who do you want to swing with? Other couples? Single women? Single guys? Big groups of sweaty naked bodies all togeth… opps, sorry! LOL! Anyway… You and your partner should discuss what you want to do and who you want to do it with.
3. Where do you want to swing? Your home? Another persons home? Hotels? Parties? Clubs? Seems like an unimportant question, but it is something that you should discuss. Inviting others to your home may not be practical due to kids, neighbors, etc. You or your partner may not be comfortable in more of a group setting such as a party or club.
4. When are you comfortable getting down and dirty? Do you want to just meet and get down to it or do you want to chat/hang out with people and get to know them before you all get naked together? Discussing this ahead of time will help you narrow down your ideal matches.
5. What are you comfortable doing? Do you want to test the waters with soft swinging or are you ready to go all out with swapping? Do you prefer everybody in the same room or are you ok with your partner going off into another room with a playmate? Will you be following safe sex practices? Make sure to go over ground rules with your partner. It may seem like a drag now, but you’ll be much more comfortable in the heat of the moment if you know what you and your partner will and won’t be doing.

Communication is the key!!!

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I think we’ve probably looked at all the swinger chat and personals websites out there. There are three that have stood out enough for us to remain paying members and suggest to others…

• Adult Friend Finder
• Swing Life Style
• Swapper NET

Adult Friend Finder is BIG! There are a ton of people on AFF, but there are also a lot of people just there to look and some fakes. We, of course, have a fondness for AFF because we met there. We have also met other great people there since we signed up as a couple. AFF also has bulletin boards, chat, webcams, articles and more. Definitely a site to check out.

Swing Life Style is a neat site mainly targeted at couples who swing. Not only will you find swinger personal ads at SLS, you will also find chat and forums along with swinger party and club listings. One of the best things about SLS is the certifications. Couples and singles can receive a certification from other members who have met them in person. It’s nice to be able to see what others have to say about somebody before you initiate contact. Overall SLS is nice friendly site and we have met some neat people there.

Swingers: www.SwingLifeStyle.com

Swapper NET is another site mainly targeted at couples. They also offer chat, groups, club listings and more. Another nice site with some great people. Swapper has one of the best search functions of all the sites.

Until next time…

Well, a little about us…

We are a real, normal couple that happens to be sexually open and enjoys swinging. The two of us actually met on Adult Friend Finder two years ago. We were both on there as singles looking for a “friends with benefits” situation. Well… we found that and more. We’ve been together two years and have now lived together for 1 year.

I guess that the idea to get into swinging was mutual. It started as fantasy talk during sex. When we actually started looking around some of the web sites and saw how many people were in our area we decided to give it a shot (no pun intended!).

Since then we’ve met some great people and had some great times. Our outlook on swinging is simple… we get to meet other sexually open people, make friends and maybe (hopefully!) have a lot of fun with them.
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